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We are on death-row. My first encounter with the croc was very recent. He appeared in one of the most used communicational app. I’m usually unaware and uninterested of this type of trend. However, the phrase, “Dies in 100 days” struck me. It was the 100th day when I was typing up this blog entry. Only a few days has passed since I first discovered the croc, but I guess I have to say farewell to him already. You might wonder what’s the deal with this croc comic and how this piece is related to BDSM. I think it can be relevant to us. BDSM is often labeled by people as sexual proclivity, paraphilia, or simply a “bad taste”. While such perception survives, recently, I feel the society is shrouded by a cloud of ambiguity and superficiality. I won’t deny the somewhat welcome mood, but I am just unsure of the social trend where people declare themselves as leather folks and being kinky as their hobby. (I don’t know, maybe this is a limited trend that only I think I se...

Sorry for the inconvenience - we are half way finished with March, but my schedule is available in the picture below. Last Friday was a holiday, but somebody couldn’t hold his burning desire for a session (he identifies himself as male). So I had spent my time with transvestite A doing a session mainly to pry open his back door. The magic phrase for this session was “Which do you prefer? Kinoko-no-yama? Or Takenoko-no-sato?”. * Kinoko-no-yama and Takenoko-no-sato are both Japanese snacks. A loves all-thing restraints. I added a pair of mittens and a bit gag which A stained with his bright pink lips. As for his sinewy legs, I bonded each of them with ropes. We both wore black corsets. Roundish balls were protruding from the crotch less fishnet he wore. The small wooden pinches I bought right before the session came in handy when creating a scrotum pin(ch) holder for them. I then swat the pinches off the balls. He was unable to talk in human language. He also wan...

It’s your birthday. How would you like to spend your time during the session? Yesterday was one of my slave’s birthday. The session was long as usual, in which he and I spent a quarter of the day together, just two of us. He came to Tokyo the previous day all the way from the west. When you are my age, you start to hate having a birthday. But if it’s about somebody else, it’s totally a happy event. He is a person of importance in his business and he knew the risks. But he still couldn’t help but see me while the Corona virus is around. You know, this is why masochists are adorable beings. Smooth leather, luxury brands, and dressage whips as his favorite things, so he decided he would give me gifts he could also enjoy (yes, it is HIS birthday). The offerings were two lovely colored whips. I of course made use of them throughout the session. As a response, I too, prepared some surprise. The red-sole short stiletto boots. Bright red enamel kimono bondage. An...

What’s a ultra-conservative society’s BDSM scene like? The Lion City has been feeding my curiosity the past few days. Singapore came up while we were in the midst of talking about the corona virus and national policy. What comes to your mind when think of Singapore? Advanced Asian business hub, radical meritocracy and authorities’ filtering of individuals based on educational background, and dictatorship. Or a popular travel destination where Merlin welcomes you, good food, and cops with submachine guns in the city...et cetera, et cetera. In this county, CCTVs watch you everywhere you go. Severe penalties apply to everyone including underage and foreigners. One of the punishment I thought was interesting is the corporal punishment (in the form of caning). Schools also use this form of punishment in Singapore. Caning seems like a classic choice in such a physically and digitally innovative smart nation. This shows that while the country has a futuristic side to ...

Hello. We just started a new theme on the relay column! Check it out and please give us your thoughts on theme - it’s always interesting to hear what’s going on through your masochistic minds... By the way, have you been following the current news on the corona virus? As you know, we have been strengthening preventative measures to fight viruses and diseases at La Siora. The good news is that no one has been sick from cold or the flu (and of course corona virus) this season. I have been with La Siora for a while, but I am glad that we actually take hygiene seriously. One of the first things newcomers learn is about regular hygiene and safety for toys, sharps, and impacts. Learning about the human body is also part of the important elementary part of kinbaku. It’s almost always mentioned during workshops. Prevention is worth the try, because it’s too late when you realize you are hurt, or worse, leaving this world. * If you are participating in a session, please g...

Let's see what does "hardcore" mean for a beautiful domina Nikki. You can check her column by clicking [More] on her section.  https://lasiora.org/en/domina/ You can see her schedule from here.  

Last weekend I was given the opportunity to finally participate in Domina Shinju’s workshop. I’ve done myself self-bondage while my memory was still fresh. For example, I could use the bondage in the picture to create spread beaver style suspension like a swing. The lower body bondage doesn’t have to be untied to do anal. In real-life session, rope bondage must be fast and easy to untie. So Dividing the shibari in two is convenient. Domina Shinju’s rope is like magic - her technique allows the ropes to release themselves with such ease. I meet clients who want to be hanged in standard (love) hotels, but half suspension using the door and whatnot is kind of the limit. At times like these, I wish we were able to have a dungeon. At a glimpse, we might look like we are underprivileged. However, if you spin it in a good way, we (that includes you) are doing some amazing stuff. Because we have less we could utilize what we already have to the max to lead a great sess...

A devil’s tail-like snake whip arrived from Eastern Europe. I had everyone take a look at this black serpentine whip. Domina Roca suggested the round end of the handle be used as anal plug. I guess it could work? The whip was made to order. 100cm in size, it is light and portable. Because it is shorter  I can maneuver without caring much about space. I had the chance to relearn some things during the 3 hour long session. Points like instrument’s easiness for grasping, heaviness, and flexibility become more important when it comes to longer sessions. Rubber, enamel, soft/hard floggers and heavy duty single-tale bullwhip - I was thrashing the dressage most of the time. The work-out from the day before added to the mild muscle ache for sure... I find it fun and effective to alternately swing the soft nubuck and hard leather to accentuate the contrast. By the way, why do you think the devil has a pointy tail? The devil is portrayed in the Revelation as the sed...

Sunday was all about riding whips. There was a sub who came all the way to meet me. Thanks a bunch. As it's mentioned in the blog title, what does hardcore mean in the real world? I have pointed out the perceptual difference on hard and soft in another blog entry before. In this recent session, I was able to feel that difference very clearly and started thinking of how to go hardcore without leaving nasty marks. For example, a sub might love some whipping. However, he absolutely rejects the use of prickly objects (if you know what I mean) and cannot have marks on his body. So what are the alternatives? Should I penetrate from behind while I tie him up, burn with a hairdryer, and do water torture on him like I did before? Or should I electrocute and tease him with toys to the extreme so he could see heaven and hell at the same time? Hardcore doesn't always require severe physical pain. I will have to level my approach with the recipient's imagination of...

Hi. I recently I purchased a riding crop and a designer roll-play lingerie - specific for pony play. Animal role-play isn't my favorite, but I like all whips and the riding crop is one of my favorite. My new riding crop is all-leather, sturdy, and less flexible, which makes it easier to aim and swing. Silver and purple are my go-to accent colors so I chose silver. A good crop is what I definitely carry around most times. It is surprisingly a versatile instrument. A good starter for warm-up, this type of whip has various applications on different occasions. I could even be artistic and create a pretty pattern with the welts and bruises. You can't really tell from the photo, but the lacy jabot top is a see-through which acts as a tailcoat (the tail is folded in the pic). Suede thigh harnesses also come with the set. I have a kind of a strange connection to horses from when I was little. I've always been around horses on ranches and race tracks. Despite every chance...

I had a chance to chat with our boss the other day. We were in some earnest conversation -  it was a time of self-analysis and being analyzed. As it turns out, "distance" and "boundaries" are the agenda. We don't call our boss boss for nothing. She sees a lot things. She catches the slightest detail and change. Perhaps, that is why she is a legendary one of a kind. I am used to maintain a reasonable distance between individuals. I am always there with open arms, however, I build an invisible wall at the same time. Put it in a nice way, I have a strong presence. But from a sub's point of view, that could mean intimidation. In most cases, people feel nervous. If he/she has a shy personality they might shut down and lose their chance to convey their emotions and wants. In fact, I actually do intimidate people around me while I am just spacing out. Also, an individual who never replied on another is clumsy at doing the opposite. Going back to ba...

Foot fetish is a diversified fetishism. From the cinched waist to the round rear end, Passing fleshy thighs and knees, tense calves resulting from the raised heels, Graspable skinny ankles, And to the pedicured cute toes... It’s interesting to see the different parts of the leg people love. The sub in the picture is especially in to the bottom of the foot. When beaten in the face with my foot he squeals in a happy manner. One of the unique foot fetish I’ve discovered is a case where a man can go for anything except bunion foot. There’s high possibility that those who wear a lot of heels get bunion. If he could do most feet, why not destroyed bunion foot? Foot fetish is featured I’m in a number of cinematography and literature and is a major fetishism. Shoe fetish is another thing derived from foot fetish (I tend to collect too many). Even before that comes bondage costume. I receive a lot of requests for lingeries and normal day attire, but I ...

The fist day at Siora this year was great. Thank you all for full reservation. Do you have any New Year's resolution? I have quite a few on my list. BDSM-wise, I would like to go more hardcore (I'm talking about some bloody affair...further details coming in my next blog entry). Maybe because I'm surrounded by devilish dominas or is it my vibes? Those seeking for a milder personality come to me. Speaking of hardcore, a proposal from one of the subs sounded rather extreme in a way. He suggested he would love to have consecutive sessions over a week with me in which I would discipline him day and night while we carry out our daily activities. Seems fun to me. Other resolutions include going to the gym with my swolemates. (I am aware of my neutral fat level...) But my wining and dining life is surely accelerating! It's January, after all. Nikki

Happy New Years. Thanks to those who have supported me. 2019 was a good year with many hellos and goodbyes. I'm looking for new beginnings this year as well. With a new work schedule, I'm starting my first day this year with a clean slate. Lets make 2020 another great year. Nikki

Hi, this is Nikki. Have you checked out our newcomers' portraits? I'm a bit jealous of their tall stature... All you masochists must have checked them out way quicker than mebecause I'm a lazy bone. 22nd was the last day at Siora this year. While my work schedule was minimized than ever, there was a regular who managed to squeeze in a session although he also had a tight schedule. Other times, I promised having future sessions half a year later and so on. My ears having been burning by hearing complaints about my availability. I took them seriously, so finally, here's some good news for you. I will try to work by a fixed shift from next year January! Please take a look at my new schedule. I'm looking forward to see you all next year in my sessions. Enjoy your holidays! Nikki

Have everyone finished their end-of-year party? I finished most of my parties last week including La Siora's meeting/party. La Siora's assembly was a spectacular sight with all the dominatrixes gathered in one space. It was a happy (and chaotic!) gathering but it was nice to say hello to some of the newcomers and dominas I usually couldn't see so often. I wonder how their sessions are going to be like...I look forward to join their sessions in the near future. The number of masochists and sadists equal the diversity of sessions. For example, in my session, I often shut off the sub's sight and hearing. Last weekend I had the chance to try that before the beginning of the session. Oh fun fun... The entrance of the nostalgic room reminiscent of the Showa era is kept opened. Under my thigh-high boots are fresh-looking tatamis. They are probably the only newest things in the room that's stuck in a time warp. On the futon, the slave lied face dow...

Suspension has a mysterious charm. The most familiar suspension I actually experience is the bat pose during my aerial yoga class. And maybe tarot cards? I would like to interpret The Hanged Man is not being punished, but instead trying to reach perfection through initiation lead by a female's hands. Why suspension all of a sudden? I had the chance to do reverse suspension at our studio and thought it was worth a mention. I also let Domina Fujika do some suspension on me as well the other day. Nothing terrible happened during the session, but I was able realize that suspension is difficult and a high-risk technique. BUT, it is fun! Thanks to you, who taught me the fun of suspension. Although, I think you're spoiled. A shoehorn, a riding whip, and a cat o' nine tails...you say you prefer my bare hands. I'm sure people already know Domina Jun is in to rope bondages these days. I'd like to thank Domina Jun for organizing kinbaku classes. To all o...

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After experiencing a stink terrorism in our office, the smell still lingers around my nose and I feel it once in a while. It must of been a surprise for me. But I'm sure that smell fetishist would go crazy with that awful odor. I remember this one session when it comes to "smells". The cold soft feel of raven locks and the scent of a woman from the ivory nape. I admire the ecstatic face of the slave as he inhales my smell. I believe we were both filled with a lot of adrenaline. Scent (or odor) is one of key items I personally think is important in developing a dom-sub relationship. This is because you may forget a person's face or their name, and yet you could somehow still remember how they smell. Let me introduce some of the fragrance s I use daily. I was using À La Rose by Maison Francis Kurkdjian during the spring and summer. Right now, my go-to is Penhaligon's The Coveted Duchess Rose. https://www.latelierdesparfums.jp/ptr-duchess-rose-...

Hi, this is Nikki. I'm available this Wednesday and Thursday. Anybody wonder about the blog title? Our boss visited the office with a new costume - a pair of suit in her hand. I guess everyone likes suits these days. Coincidentally, I got a costume request for one of today's sessions where I would wear my suit. The suit has actually been worn on a daily-basis. Glad that I saved a few in my wardrobe... As I announced earlier, I had the chance to experiment with my new power unit yesterday. This was the first time for the slave and he told me he felt a funny sensation from the stimulation. From my point of view, he seemed to enjoy himself, because that rubber loop around his weenie was about to bite into the flesh. Thanks for the Halloween treat. Nikki