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A sub who keeps his head down, practically glaring at the floor, even though he’s about to come over to me. I could grab him by the hair and lift his head, but instead, I lean close to his ear and order him to look at me. He slowly raises his head, trembling as he tries to meet my gaze. I love the way his eyes become wide open at that moment, as though they’ve suddenly become fixed on me. It’s as if he’s concentrating on taking in everything. Everything I’m about to tell him, everything I’m about to do to him. So that he doesn’t miss a single thing. Even in those quiet moments, I can feel the strength of his heartbeat coming from him. There are also the ones who squeeze their eyes shut, then cautiously open them for a quick peek— only to find me much closer than they expected, looking straight into their eyes. When our eyes meet, they fall backward with a start, embarrassed and flustered. Those pure reactions are adorable. They’re also far too much fun not to tease. I want to take away...

I realized during this session that I really enjoy unhinged subs. There is something very animal when they fully let go to their fantasies and into pushing themselves to some extremes.  During this double session with Mistress Hikaru, this sub wanted to push his pain threshold and limits. The more we flogged him or spanked him, the more he wanted it. It was amazing to have him beg for more while knowing he was in unbearable pain.  Squeezing his neck between my calves so he wouldn't run away, Mistress Hikaru and I spanked him until he couldn't take it anymore, we went so hard he reached a point where he started to shake.  But the most interesting moment was when we suspended him by the wrists in front of the mirror and flogged him. He started acting absolutely crazy, which was amazing and seemed very liberating, like this side of him only wanted to get out and be free. I do believe it helped make the pain more bearable.  I love pushing the limits of the subs and marki...

  That whole sense of “gender reversal” when I’m engaging in anal play really hits one of my biggest kinks. A masochist once asked me, “When you’re using a strap-on on me, mistress HIBARI, you don’t really think of me as a man, do you…?” But if anything, while I’m doing it, I think what I want is simply to awaken a feminine feeling in the masochist. Through my commands and the words I say to him, I want to pull both his senses and his consciousness away from those of an ordinary man, and turn him into a madman drowning in pleasure. But, as you said, my own feelings also change in response to the masochists’ reactions and words, so I suppose it really is a kind of perversion that depends on communication. The strange thing is, when I’m using my fingers to loosen him up or stimulating his prostate, I feel as though I’m giving him a handjob; and when I’m using a strap-on, I look into his face as he’s completely overwhelmed, and I feel as though I’m the one taking him. It’s called “ple...

I like to push. When I say, “I want to do this,” and a masochist frowns, I love it when he doesn’t say “yes” too easily. If I can feel that he is not ready to give in, I feel like blood is flowing through my whole body. It makes me feel alive again. I want to see if there is room to push him mentally. I also enjoy watching his face while he desperately thinks of an excuse to avoid doing what I want. When he says “no,” I enjoy thinking about what excuse I can use to make him say “yes.” The moment he realizes, “This Mistress is never going to give up,” and finally gives up and accepts what I want, is a very sweet moment for me. But that moment passes very quickly. Because I want to enjoy that one little drop of delicious juice, I have to use my brain as much as I can. That’s why I don’t like men who immediately do everything I say. I want to enjoy the process of making them say “yes.” I used to be too impatient. I wanted them to say “yes” right away. But now, I can wait calmly, like a cr...

  As I wrote in a previous blog, I see myself as probably being a bit too kind for a domina, sometimes. I know empathy is a great quality, but I feared it might have taken over during sessions. I realised that if a sub is extremely soft and kind I tend to be the same. But when a sub is a bit Brady. I become kind of mean. I adapt to my sub's behavior. Some of them need a domina with a strong character that mistreats them. Others need a softer domina that takes care of them, and I have been trying to find that perfect balance for my sessions.  A sub of mine tried being a bit bratty with me, just to see what would happen, and at that moment, the session became even more fun, because he discovered another side of me.  He called himself a princess, and so to be treated like one. The beauty of Japanese language is that a dominatrix is called a queen. I attached him from the legs in a pretty uncomfortable position, his face on the level of my boots and taught him a lesson, showe...

  I have finally overcome some type of fears I had about studio S3.  As my skills improved and my interests in different types of plays broaden, I realized that I now really enjoy having sessions in studio S3. The room is small, but it has all the amenities I need to have a very fun and playful time there.  During this session, I left my sub on the other side of the gate. I sat on a chair and waited for him to beg properly. I consider that a sub that knows how to beg and not ask for or demand, deserves some sort of attention. It makes me happy when they get small and desperate.  He did stay there for a long time. I teased him with the keys that open the lock and humiliated him later on when I attached is balls to the gate. Being forced to then get up seemed pretty painful even more when I opened the gate and he could barely touch the ground, his balls still attached to the bars.  He was facing the mirror and had to look at his little, pathetic self while being t...

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  I realized, after a year since I started this profession, that I always had a hard time separating my domina brain from my strong empathetic, every day brain.  It was always a fight between being a domina and simply my own self. I know some of my subs really love that "normal" and kind person. But I know it isn't working for others. Many subs are looking for a domina. Not an "everyday girl" with a whip. During my first session in August, something seemed to have clicked. I found myself in that domina zone. I think the fact that the sub was also deep in his submissive-self helped me fully embracing my domina-self. The flow was right, the feelings were right. I stopped being too kind and as he kept begging: "Break me, mistress" I became that domina I was looking for during that first year of learning the profession. The empathie wasn't gone. But I wasn't fighting with it anymore.  The aftercare at the end of the session was a great way for the ...