As that first year has been passing while I was learning how to be the Domina I want to be; I realized that I do not necessarily have a preference between hard or soft sessions. I do have a little something for masochists though... but that will be for another blog. I enjoy what every sessions can give me. Even more if my connection with my sub is good. I love when I have that chemistry with my sub; where no speech is necessary for me to know how the session is going. Sometimes it can happen in the first session, usually when the sub is very expressive. Some other times, it happens after the second or third session. But when that connection happens, the sessions just get better and more fun for the both of us. I am a very chatty person, and when I have a chatty sub, our sessions are often sparkles with conversations, sometimes very serious, sometimes very funny; it makes the session light and interesting. In between sentences I would slap my sub in the face or have a ...
I bought several new vibrators that I can control with a remote. Of course, I had to try them during a session. I really enjoy restraint, so sometimes I tie someone with rope, use leather cuffs, or fix their arms and legs to the bed. I also like making someone stand with their arms and legs restrained, almost like a cross. The atmosphere can still be very calm and elegant. I can speak softly, take my time, and slowly walk around him. Then I might use the whip. And sometimes, while he is still restrained, I suddenly turn on a vibrator on his nipples or his ass with the remote control. I really enjoy that little difference. Everything looks quiet and controlled, but I can change the sensation whenever I want. Sometimes I stop it. Sometimes I make it stronger. Sometimes I leave him waiting because I know he is wondering when I will touch the remote again. That is very fun for me. Recently, I have also been thinking about my English during sessions. My English is still not perf...