As I wrote in a previous blog, I see myself as probably being a bit too kind for a domina, sometimes. I know empathy is a great quality, but I feared it might have taken over during sessions. I realised that if a sub is extremely soft and kind I tend to be the same. But when a sub is a bit Brady. I become kind of mean. I adapt to my sub's behavior. Some of them need a domina with a strong character that mistreats them. Others need a softer domina that takes care of them, and I have been trying to find that perfect balance for my sessions. A sub of mine tried being a bit bratty with me, just to see what would happen, and at that moment, the session became even more fun, because he discovered another side of me. He called himself a princess, and so to be treated like one. The beauty of Japanese language is that a dominatrix is called a queen. I attached him from the legs in a pretty uncomfortable position, his face on the level of my boots and taught him a lesson, showe...
I have finally overcome some type of fears I had about studio S3. As my skills improved and my interests in different types of plays broaden, I realized that I now really enjoy having sessions in studio S3. The room is small, but it has all the amenities I need to have a very fun and playful time there. During this session, I left my sub on the other side of the gate. I sat on a chair and waited for him to beg properly. I consider that a sub that knows how to beg and not ask for or demand, deserves some sort of attention. It makes me happy when they get small and desperate. He did stay there for a long time. I teased him with the keys that open the lock and humiliated him later on when I attached is balls to the gate. Being forced to then get up seemed pretty painful even more when I opened the gate and he could barely touch the ground, his balls still attached to the bars. He was facing the mirror and had to look at his little, pathetic self while being t...