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Nowhere to Stand, Nowhere to Escape by domina Hibari

  A masochist whose feet don’t touch the ground—pitiful, and that’s exactly what makes it good. Even simply being suspended, I believe, already contains suffering. And the way they stare back at me—trying to read my intentions while I silently watch them—is delightful. Even though they can’t do a thing. As for inverted suspension, I’m really glad I bought my own restraints a few years ago. I’ve been using them not only at studios I’m familiar with, like S3 Studio and Alphain, but also bringing them along to places like Studio 9 and MK Studio. As the sound of the pulley chain lifts them higher, I wonder if their mind is slowly being cornered along with it. Forced into a position where all they can do is be looked down upon, the way they expose their stomach like a dog begging to be played with feels so defenseless. It had been a while, but I also did rope suspension again—and it was satisfying. Unlike lifting with a pulley, rope suspension lets me carefully take away their freedom p...
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My personal maid by domina Rosa

This follows my previous blog about role-play.  After the interview, my sub went to dress as a maid so I could test her cleaning skills at first.  I used one of our face harness and clipped a feather duster to it and forced her to clean the dust around the room, punishing her if she missed some spots or was too slow. Once I was satisfied with that part, I changed the duster to a broom so she could clean the floor. It was pretty satisfying to see her on all fours cleaning around the room as fast and as good as shes could. She did get punished a few times, as I was not 100% satisfied with her cleaning speed. But overall, she did a good job.  It was time to see now if she was good enough for more intimate work. I won't go into too much details here, but she definitely managed all the things I did to her and she was very well rewarded. Bruised, yes. But rewarded so well her brain and might've needed a little break at some point.  In the end, she was hired and I am lookin...

Control Without Distance by domina Hibari

Even when I’m not meeting my masochists, I feel as though I’m still in session with them. From what I hear, when they’re alone, each of them wrestles with their own restless urges—tormented, simmering beneath a calm exterior, driven by an intense impatience they can’t quite release. As I listen, I respond with casual “I see”s, but at the same time, I find myself narrowing my eyes, quietly intoxicated by it all. There was a masochist who had carefully prepared a list of questions for me.   Another, who shyly confessed that they sustain their self-pleasure using only memories of our sessions.   One who spoke of their regrets and ambitions.   One who endured the suffering of a chastity device head-on.   And one who struggled with anxiety and longing, letting their feelings build and build. Tell me—what kind of expression did you have? It’s almost endearing that I can’t fully see it. It seems the “poison” I want to give has seeped in deeply—and they respond with pure, un...

Accumulated Torment/A New Nipple Play Tool by domina Hibari

  I find myself deeply absorbed in the slow, meticulous control of whether a masochist reaches their limit—or the very peak of their arousal. When I use a cane, I savor the space between each strike just as much as the strike itself. I want them to fully absorb the lingering pain, to feel it settle into their body as it is, unfiltered. And just when they are preparing themselves for the next blow, I like to unsettle their mind—make them tremble. It can be the sharp sound of the cane cutting through the air, or simply my words. I strike the same spot repeatedly, letting the sensation build and accumulate. Even as they weaken, I expect them to respond properly to my voice. Perhaps the cane is the only form of play I prefer to enjoy slowly and purely, without combining it with anything else. Maybe it’s because the process is so vivid— step by step, they steadily offer up their composure to me. Another deeply persistent and sharpening path to an extreme state is breath control. (The re...

Role-playing ♡ by domina Rosa

  When the roleplay hits another level and seems almost like it isn't playing anymore.  My sub and I decided to have a role-play session together. He enjoys being a sissy and a slave/maid. So I decided to combine both and create a little story that goes kind of like this: A woman (my sub) is looking to get a job as a maid for a rich woman and her husband (me and imaginary husband).  I interviewed her, asked for references from her previous house and asked if she was the type to take good care of the man of the house. Good intimate, private care.  In this story, my husband is a very busy man that loves to have a personal maid that takes care of him in every aspects.  I am satisfied with her answers and decide to invite her to my place and see if she is really a good fit for my household and my husband.  ...         Schedule    On call monday (temporary) 14:00~20:00 Thursday(木) to Sunday(日) 13:30~20:00 Click here to visit my page!:  https:...

Wax it all. by domina Rosa

  Some would find me mean when I say this, but... I dislike hair on my subs.  It gets in the way. It is annoying. Candle wax gets stuck. The ropes for shibari pulls the hair. Some men have their body hair getting tangled up. The hair also hide the marks and bruises sometimes.  So I tried and waxed one of my subs, as torture and humiliation, but also to get a nice smooth ass to put wax on and to bruise.  It looked awfully painful, mostly when I wouldn't removed the stripe properly.  In the end I managed to remove a bit of hair, but it wasn't as good as I wanted, it was mostly painful and humiliating.  ☆Here is the list of what I love and enjoy during my sessions☆ ♡Rope bondage  •Hanging ♡Spanking /caning ♡Whipping ♡Flogging ♡Candle wax ♡Electric stimulation ♡Sensory deprivation play •Enema •Anal play •Pegging •Smothering ♡Nipple play ♡Chastity play •P*nis play •CBT •Tickle torture •Forced m*sturbation •Humiliation •Verbal abuse •Breath control •Gen...

Depth Over Hardness by domina Hibari

I’m always happy to see how many masochists come to a session after reading a lot of my blog posts in advance. Thank you, as always. When they tell me that, I can’t help but smile, imagining that they’ve probably already pictured what today’s session with me might be like. Some people seem to have the impression that I often engage in hard play. But I’m curious—what do you personally use as the standard to decide what is hard and what is soft? Many people say it depends on the intensity of physical pain or suffering. But is that really all there is to it? There are several things I value during a session. One of them is leaving a strong, vivid sensation in the other person’s mind. I’ll keep that expression deliberately vague, but if you’re a true pervert, you can probably imagine what I mean. The balance of that sensation changes depending on the person. After all, BD.SM is something that progresses through a mutual emotional response between two people. If I can leave a deep mark in s...

from the comfort of the sofa by domina Rosa

Sometimes, sessions get tiring for the domina. The highheel shoes, walking around, standing up, flogging, whipping, slapping. It gets exhausting.  I tied my sub's wrists with a rope and tied him to the door, on his knees and sat on the sofa. From that distance, the whip I had was long enough for me to still be able to hit him, while comfortably sitting on the couch, resting my sore body while transferring my pain to him.  The position he was in was pretty uncomfortable so adding the pain of the whip on top of the discomfort made me pretty happy, while I was resting.  I did at some point moved him and tied him to the ceiling's beam in front of the bed where I was lying while still flogging him. It was such a relaxing time for me, all while he was there suffering, taking all the pain I felt like inflicting him.  It was a very fun session and I felt well rested after it all ♡         Schedule    Thursday(木) to Sunday(日) 13:30~20:00 Click here to visit my ...