La Siora Tokyo blog

  The subs that have read my blogs know that one of the things I enjoy the most during sessions is to be creative. I enjoy when a session is a little bit like a puzzle to solve, mostly when it comes to shibary and hanging.  I love making my own nawa or kinbaku when I have a specific idea in my head; when I want my sub's body to take a specific form. I enjoy playing with the ropes to make that shape happen. Spread their legs in the air and have access to their ass. Tie them in a uncomfortable way where if they move they hurt themselves. Put them in a beautiful shape that is pretty and useful for me.  Possibilities are endless with creativity.  Sometimes the outcome is pretty and flawless and sometimes it is not exactly what I intended to do. But that's the beauty of it. The organic and raw feeling of the decisions of the moment. Calculated, but not thought long in advance. Last-minute decision that changes the course of the session. A flow like a river going around ro...

A notice for our members in France and those currently traveling in France. Sho Asakawa, the designer behind the acclaimed harness brand “VENUS ECCENTRIC,” which has also held events at Bar Amarcord.His talent extends far beyond harnesses to include art and music as well. Starting Saturday, September 18, he will be holding a solo exhibition in Paris, which is buzzing with excitement for Paris Fashion Week. Please stop by if you have the time.

  Rope bondage looks like it may become my latest obsession all over again. I’ve gone through this cycle many times before, but there’s something strangely magical about rope. Having a masochist who loves rope bondage × cross-dressing come and offer himself up to me only made me even more obsessed with it. (He even wore some wonderfully perverted fake-feminine-body gear for me♪) I want to run the rope along a masochist’s body, tighten it, torment him, humiliate him, and gradually shut him away from the outside world, while at the same time allowing him to experience a sense of psychological release. Because I spend an incredible amount of concentration observing the characteristics of his body and every reaction he gives me, I naturally find myself slipping into top space quite easily. (If the masochist hasn’t already entered that space to some degree, I can’t get there either.) That is also part of why I love rope bondage. The whole process, from tying someone up to finally untyin...

Is this your first time visiting me? Or maybe it is your first time having a session like this in Japan. You may have many questions. What should I do? What should I say? Do I need to know exactly what I want? Don’t worry. You don’t need to be an expert. And you don’t need to prepare everything before you come. I will look at you, listen to you, and talk with you. I want to know what you are thinking, what you like, and what you are interested in. Then, we can make a nice time together. You don’t have to decide everything by yourself. Maybe you already know what you want. Maybe you have only a small idea. Or maybe you don’t know what you want yet. That’s all okay. Please tell me what you are interested in. I will listen to you, and I will also give you my ideas. I want to see you and understand you little by little. Then, I can make a session that is special for you. Every person is different. So I don’t want to give everyone the same experience. I want to make our time together, just ...

It’s definitely autumn now, isn’t it? I’m happy it’s getting cooler, but thinking about eating shaved ice or gazing out at the ocean… I suddenly felt a little sad when I realized there were still things I wanted to do this summer that I never got around to. Is it too late to do them now? Did you all enjoy your summer to the fullest? I have an announcement for everyone. My first installment of the relay column has been published. I hope it conveyed what’s important to me. I believe that you can’t truly respect someone unless you first get to know them. That applies equally to everyday life and to our sessions. In particular, each of you comes here with very different experiences and feelings. And a session is a world just for the two of us, where we can explore a much wider range of experiences than in everyday life. I want to start by getting to know you and accepting who you are. I’d like to say a few words about the photo in this post. Since I had the day off, I repainted my toenails...

The first relay colum written by domina Mirei is here!  You can find her colum on her page;  https://lasiora.org/en/domina/mirei/

When I came back from my short vacation, I had a very interesting meeting with Rie Asagiri to talk about my first year as a domina and where I will be going from now.  I had some moments of doubts and wonders in June and wasn't sure exactly what was happening. Something was shifting, but I was not ready to face it. The vacation helped and forced me to think about my next steps in the agency and meeting with Rie san also helped me.  We concluded that I needed tho polish my skills more.  Since I enjoy a plethora of plays, it was difficult to choose which plays I wanted to put the most energy in getting more skilled. Many of you already know my love for candle wax and my new passion for electric devices. But then I realised that during my first year, I didn't practice the whips or nawa much. And that idea that these skills were lost on me, made me reconsider some aspects of myself and my plays.  As a visual learner, I decided to watch the skilled dominas of our agency m...

How does it feel to be down at the very bottom—the place they call the lowest of the low? I don’t think it’s ever easy to place yourself completely beneath someone else, or to willingly become their toy. Lately, my days have been filled with masochists who proudly choose such pitiful names for themselves as “the lowest of the low” or “inferior masochist.” Of course, I’m fully aware that I’m partly responsible for guiding them in that direction, because those are exactly the kinds of people I happen to like. And yet, no matter how much someone presents themselves as being “lower,” I sometimes casually wonder whether the true bottom is actually much, much farther down than any of us imagine. If there is such a thing a thing as a true rock bottom, the reason we have yet to reach it is because we have both have lives outside of this. But isn’t it only natural to want to be made that way—to want to experience that kind of submission? So, what I’m reminded of once again is this: For you true...