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  There is a certain emotional gradient that each masochist goes through during a session, and I find myself deeply aroused by it. It begins with tension. Their composure is gradually broken down, and eventually, they reach a state where almost no trace of the person they were remains.（It doesn't mean that you actually feel like you’re going to die.) Some people become utterly worn down. Others seem to melt away. I describe a masochist in that state as “a masochist on the verge of disappearing.” They may desperately try to hold themselves together, rigid with tension, but as they are pushed further and further, the rational part of them is gradually stripped away, until they reach a state where they seem to be on the verge of disappearing entirely. That is the moment when I feel the greatest sense of eros. And, in the best possible way, I never get used to it. Because I am exposed to BDSM on a regular basis, I have come to understand just how much the “ordinary way of thinking and ...

  If you are interested in Japanese Shibari or Femdom, you may wonder what you can actually experience with me. The answer is: it depends on you. I don’t have only one style of session. I like to talk with you first, understand what you are interested in, and then add my own ideas. So you don’t have to decide everything before you come. 【Japanese Shibari】 I have studied Shibari in Japan for three years with a Japanese Shibari teacher who is also a Mistress. I can do floor Shibari as well as advanced suspension. I change the way I tie depending on the person’s experience, body type, and what they want. For me, Shibari is not only about making beautiful rope patterns. Rope can also be dangerous if it is not done properly. I have learned about these risks and how to work with different people safely. If you are new to Shibari, that’s okay. If you already have experience, that’s okay too. We can choose a style that is suitable for you. Schedule Friday & Saturday 15:00 – Late Last a...

I had the pleasure to go shopping with Mistress Hikaru and we had a great time at one of the famous adult shop in Akihabara! I bought two sets of chastity belts, one of which is for absolute beginners ♡ A new small but strong vibrator, a very fun and powerful vibrating plug Some special tools for the experts and a beautiful monster c*ck! I am so looking forward to playing with my new toys during my sessions All for beginner and more advanced subs ♡ ☆Here is the list of what I love and enjoy during my sessions☆ ♡Rope bondage  •Hanging ♡Spanking  ♡Caning ♡Whipping ♡Flogging ♡Candle wax ♡Electric stimulation ♡Sensory deprivation play •Enema •Anal play •Pegging •Smothering •Trampling ♡Nipple play ♡Chastity play •P*nis play •CBT •Forced m*sturbation •Tickle torture •Humiliation •Verbal abuse •Breath control •Mommification •Gender change (cross-dressing) ♡Sissy play ♡Maid/servant play •Sessions in public •Role playing •Animal play (pony play, dog play, pig play) •Balloon play ♡Foot/...

A sub who keeps his head down, practically glaring at the floor, even though he’s about to come over to me. I could grab him by the hair and lift his head, but instead, I lean close to his ear and order him to look at me. He slowly raises his head, trembling as he tries to meet my gaze. I love the way his eyes become wide open at that moment, as though they’ve suddenly become fixed on me. It’s as if he’s concentrating on taking in everything. Everything I’m about to tell him, everything I’m about to do to him. So that he doesn’t miss a single thing. Even in those quiet moments, I can feel the strength of his heartbeat coming from him. There are also the ones who squeeze their eyes shut, then cautiously open them for a quick peek— only to find me much closer than they expected, looking straight into their eyes. When our eyes meet, they fall backward with a start, embarrassed and flustered. Those pure reactions are adorable. They’re also far too much fun not to tease. I want to take away...

I realized during this session that I really enjoy unhinged subs. There is something very animal when they fully let go to their fantasies and into pushing themselves to some extremes.  During this double session with Mistress Hikaru, this sub wanted to push his pain threshold and limits. The more we flogged him or spanked him, the more he wanted it. It was amazing to have him beg for more while knowing he was in unbearable pain.  Squeezing his neck between my calves so he wouldn't run away, Mistress Hikaru and I spanked him until he couldn't take it anymore, we went so hard he reached a point where he started to shake.  But the most interesting moment was when we suspended him by the wrists in front of the mirror and flogged him. He started acting absolutely crazy, which was amazing and seemed very liberating, like this side of him only wanted to get out and be free. I do believe it helped make the pain more bearable.  I love pushing the limits of the subs and marki...

  That whole sense of “gender reversal” when I’m engaging in anal play really hits one of my biggest kinks. A masochist once asked me, “When you’re using a strap-on on me, mistress HIBARI, you don’t really think of me as a man, do you…?” But if anything, while I’m doing it, I think what I want is simply to awaken a feminine feeling in the masochist. Through my commands and the words I say to him, I want to pull both his senses and his consciousness away from those of an ordinary man, and turn him into a madman drowning in pleasure. But, as you said, my own feelings also change in response to the masochists’ reactions and words, so I suppose it really is a kind of perversion that depends on communication. The strange thing is, when I’m using my fingers to loosen him up or stimulating his prostate, I feel as though I’m giving him a handjob; and when I’m using a strap-on, I look into his face as he’s completely overwhelmed, and I feel as though I’m the one taking him. It’s called “ple...

I like to push. When I say, “I want to do this,” and a masochist frowns, I love it when he doesn’t say “yes” too easily. If I can feel that he is not ready to give in, I feel like blood is flowing through my whole body. It makes me feel alive again. I want to see if there is room to push him mentally. I also enjoy watching his face while he desperately thinks of an excuse to avoid doing what I want. When he says “no,” I enjoy thinking about what excuse I can use to make him say “yes.” The moment he realizes, “This Mistress is never going to give up,” and finally gives up and accepts what I want, is a very sweet moment for me. But that moment passes very quickly. Because I want to enjoy that one little drop of delicious juice, I have to use my brain as much as I can. That’s why I don’t like men who immediately do everything I say. I want to enjoy the process of making them say “yes.” I used to be too impatient. I wanted them to say “yes” right away. But now, I can wait calmly, like a cr...

  As I wrote in a previous blog, I see myself as probably being a bit too kind for a domina, sometimes. I know empathy is a great quality, but I feared it might have taken over during sessions. I realised that if a sub is extremely soft and kind I tend to be the same. But when a sub is a bit Brady. I become kind of mean. I adapt to my sub's behavior. Some of them need a domina with a strong character that mistreats them. Others need a softer domina that takes care of them, and I have been trying to find that perfect balance for my sessions.  A sub of mine tried being a bit bratty with me, just to see what would happen, and at that moment, the session became even more fun, because he discovered another side of me.  He called himself a princess, and so to be treated like one. The beauty of Japanese language is that a dominatrix is called a queen. I attached him from the legs in a pretty uncomfortable position, his face on the level of my boots and taught him a lesson, showe...