“I’m afraid of the ‘space’ you talk about, Mistress Hibari. Because that words always assume that I’ll be cornered and stripped of everything.” To put it simply, this “space” refers to the submissive’s mental leeway—their sense of composure or remaining rationality during a session. I use this word because I always want to push that submissive mindset to the edge. If I were to fill that space completely, we'd just hit the ceiling—and that would be boring. If I filled that space completely, you’d just hit the limit—and that’s not interesting. Things are better when they stay slightly out of reach. At some point, even that frustration can just tip over into something else. You call it frightening—but you’re not trying to hold on to it, either. If anything, you’re already leaning toward letting me take it. As for the extent of that “space,” I want to define it myself, adjusting it in response to how things unfold. I think that authority belongs solely to the dominatrix. People tend to...
One of my subs was kind enough to be the model for these new gifts. I really love good quality tools, but they can get expensive. So when the opportunity comes, I never say no. I am very happy about these new restraining tools and beautifully painful weighted nipple clamps. I think it goes well with my preferred aesthetics and style when it comes to my sessions, if, and only if, the sub enjoys a bit more of a harder session. I enjoy the nipple clamps and how the pain can make a sub go limp. It's a type of pain that is unavoidable; once the clamps are placed, you don't have the choice, but to accept that the removal will be worst and you can't do anything about this fatality and the pain that will come while and after removing the clamps. My subs' reaction is always my favorite part. I did torture one of my sub once that got a bit... let's say out of place, and forced an apology out of him, using the clamps. But that will be for another blog. It ...