Last part is here!
Relaxing aftercare with candle wax.
For me, BDSM sessions should always be devided in 3 parts:
Primary care, session, aftercare.
It is important to have that human side of a session, mostly when it focuses on inflicting pain, humiliating and reducing a masochist to a weak and fragile sub.
I seek that human connection for my sub but also for myself. A bond between a domina and her regular subs is a strong one and should be maintained and should get stronger with time.
To do so, the primary care is important, it's the quick discussion before starting the session, connecting while getting ready, puting each other at ease and making sure that the sub isn't stressed out or anxious (mostly if it's their first time!)Then, the session can start.
This session was particularly intense and fun. I put my sub in painful situations and forced him to beg for Mercy multiple times.
So towards the end, I knew he could handle a bit more of it and he was interested into candle wax play, he knew I really enjoy it and he wanted to give it another try, to understand why I love it so much, perhaps.
It was still a bit painful, but very relaxing. We discussed during that time and his body relaxed under the kiss of the hot wax. Removing the wax isn't painful and also very relaxing so it made a good time for us and was a gentle way to finish the session and a type of aftercare that was still part of our SM time.
Not everybody feels the same about candle wax. Some people cannot handle the pain and it wouldn't be a good aftercare. I only do it when I know my sub can handle much worst.
People are different and all have different ways to relax and recover after a long SM session. Let's discover yours together ♡
That session was fun and eye opening and I realized how much I enjoy long sessions. It gives me time to do so much, but also to not hurry, I can choose the perfect pace for me and my sub.
Thank you for this time, it was amazing ♡
I had the chance to have another very long session in Alpha-in while writing this blog. I will write about it soon Xx
☆The list of what I love and enjoy during my sessions☆
♡Rope bondage
•Hanging
♡Spanking /caning
♡Whipping
♡Flogging
♡Candle wax
♡Electric stimulation
♡Sensory deprivation play
•Enema
•Anal play
•Smothering
♡Nipple play
•P*nis play
•CBT
♡Tickle torture
•Forced m*sturbation
•Humiliation
•Verbal abuse
•Breath control
•Gender change (cross-dressing)
♡Sissy play
•Sessions in public
♡Maid/servant play
•Role playing
•Animal play (pony play, dog play, pig play)
•Golden shower
♡Foot worship
I am very open to learning and trying new things and new types of plays.
If you have any inquiries, please feel free to contact the front desk!
🌹 Schedule 🌹
Wednesday (æ°´) On call (please book monday at the latest)
Thursday (木) 13:30~20:00
Friday (金) 13:30~20:00
Saturday (土) 13:00~20:00
Sunday (æ—¥) 13:00~20:00
Click here to visit my page!: https://lasiora.org/ja/domina/rosa/
English version here: https://lasiora.org/en/domina/rosa/
TEL : 03-6380-6568
I am looking forward for our sessions ♡
Your Mistress,
Rosa 🌹