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The Space I Control by domina Hibari


“I’m afraid of the ‘space’ you talk about, Mistress Hibari. Because that words always assume that I’ll be cornered and stripped of everything.”

To put it simply, this “space” refers to the submissive’s mental leeway—their sense of composure or remaining rationality during a session. I use this word because I always want to push that submissive mindset to the edge.

If I were to fill that space completely, we'd just hit the ceiling—and that would be boring.

If I filled that space completely, you’d just hit the limit—and that’s not interesting.
Things are better when they stay slightly out of reach.
At some point, even that frustration can just tip over into something else.

You call it frightening—but you’re not trying to hold on to it, either.
If anything, you’re already leaning toward letting me take it.



As for the extent of that “space,” I want to define it myself, adjusting it in response to how things unfold.
I think that authority belongs solely to the dominatrix.



People tend to long for what they don’t have. So when it comes to letting go of that emotional margin they’re supposed to be filled with, they hesitate.
And yet, as they’re gradually overwhelmed, they end up surrendering before they even realize it.
I enjoy watching that restless back-and-forth from above.

If you offer yourself, I will always leave a mark in that mental space. Otherwise, I wouldn’t be satisfied.
If you want it on your body as well, I can do that—but what I prioritize most is leaving fresh, lingering marks on the mind.

That’s why I take.




*Notice: Changes to Golden Week Schedule

- May 3 (Sun): 13:00–19:00 (last booking: 70 min session) 
- May 4 (Mon): 13:00–18:00 (last booking: 70 min session)

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