I have been reflecting back on an incident that happened a couple of months ago. I was at an outdoor seating area with another more dominant female who does not work in the industry and a submissive man that I brought with me. Despite not knowing him very well, she tried to force him to comply with her demands by using harsh language and a rude attitude. I could tell that he did not like how she was treating him in a public space, so I stepped in to put a stop to her behavior.
It seems like it is a common misconception that a domina always has to be rude and mean to a slave. Of course there are certain expectations for a slave, which deserve punishment when unfulfilled. However, the flip side is also important: there are rewards for good behavior. The way you treat a slave depends on your established relationship with them.
Everyone has different limits and ways they like to be treated. Some people like to always be treated like dirt, while others like to be treated gently like a pet. This is not a change in anyone’s personality, but rather how the relationship between the mistress and slave is established. The basis of the connection between the dominant and submissive is trust.
This Week’s Schedule:
11/18 (Wednesday) 14:00-21:00
11/19 (Thursday) 14:00-21:00
11/20 (Friday) 14:00-21:00
11/21 (Saturday) 13:00-21:00
I look forward to seeing you!
Catherine